"I know I need to end this relationship, but I texted him three times yesterday. Why did I do that? What's wrong with me?" This is a common refrain from many of my private clients. These are loving, considerate, intelligent often very successful people. Yet they struggle...

Some of us think we're God because we believe we can change other people. Or we think that by changing our own behavior, we can impact and change the behavior of our partner. When we're in a functional, loving relationship with a normal, healthy adult changing our...