Keep Your Side of the Sidewalk Clean When we're in a difficult relationship we often don't know where our partner begins and we end which can create a lot of pain and chaos. If our partner criticizes or walls himself off or lies or cheats or mopes...

"I am so pissed off at you! Why do we have to celebrate every single holiday together, including Ground Hog Day?! You're smothering me!!" "Fine, if you don't want to see me then maybe we just should never see each other again since you hate me...

"I know what he should do! He should definitely stop drinking a Big Gulp of tequila in bed every night after losing all of his paycheck playing online Bingo, which was supposed to be spent on paying off our second mortgage." -- Anyone who has...

This article is also published The Woman Formerly Known As Beautiful. We were married 10 years before I made Henry meet me for a blind date. I'd been nursing an inexplicable obsession with the singer Gavin DeGraw and felt I ought to refocus my energy on real-life...

Hello Fellow Recovery Ninjas, It's Week 14 of the Asshat Recovery Program! If you're just arriving for the first time you'll want to start your journey HERE. This week is Character Trait #3 found in partners of Asshats:  The dreaded LOW SELF-ESTEEM. Low Self-Esteem isn't just for middle schoolers...

Hello Fellow Recovery Ninjas -- I've been a bit out of the loop as I flew off to work in Syrian refugee camps in Greece for the last two weeks. It was an incredible experience and reminded me of how fortunate we are to actually have the...