The Toxic Man (or Woman) is Unreliable and Inconsistent. Unreliability is an important red flag that will usually pop up in the early stages of the relationship. So it’s a good idea to pay attention before you fall under the toxic (wo)man’s thrall. If your date tells you...

Now that you've answered my questionnaire and determined you may, indeed, be bad at avoiding relationships and even friendships with Asshats, be sure to bookmark this page. Because over the next nine weeks I'm going to take you on an in-depth tour of 9 Red Flags...

I met my friend Mistress Justine for lunch on Abbot Kinney in Venice on Friday. That’s not her real name, but it should be. She and her husband, Raoul (also a pseudonym) have been married fifteen years. The last time we spoke Justine admitted their sex...

Newlyweds Margaret and David are still figuring out the sexual dynamics of their marriage.   In bed Margaret is soft. Demure. Enticing as Brigitte Bardot in And God Created Woman, with doe-like come-hither glances and marzipan hair.   She’s as tremulous as the surface of...

In case you didn't know, my husband and Henry and I are working our way through that seminal book 101 Nights of Great Sex by the dulcet Laura Corn. This is our second foray into the book. Our first adventure, The Velvet Tongue, was a smash hit. Let...

I've been vigilant about not scaring my atheist or agnostic readers away by waxing too Woo-Woo spiritual on this site. I'm incredibly skeptical when it comes to religion. Jim Jones from Jonestown, anyone? David Koresh from Waco Texas? And did you know Scientology is considered a...