Why Does He Treat Me Like Shit When He Says He Loves Me? How to Make It Stop! Hey There -- first of all, I'm sorry he's treating you like shit. (If you're a man getting run over by a capricious, chaotic, inconsistent woman, just replace...
Hello Love Ninja -- I'm about to deliver the best dating advice for people who feel clueless and seem to crash and brun. Searing Epiphany #1: Sharing Intimate Details Isn't Intimacy What's the most intimate thing you've revealed to a seat mate on a long airplane flight?...
Admit it. Bad Boys & Girls Are Exciting. And They're Ruining Our Lives! (The Life of a Love Addict) I used to get miffed when "nice guys" who wanted to date me bitterly cried, "All women just want to date Bad Boys!" They may've been right. At...
Don't Romanticize an Unhappy Relationship! Remember that night when you were out to dinner with your boyfriend and another couple and as you were leaving, your boyfriend stopped to speak to a GORGEOUS WOMAN at the bar and you thought: "He must know her from somewhere because...
What is The Law of Attraction? Thought leader and cherubic badass Mark Manson defines it thusly: “Essentially, The Law of Attraction states that whatever consumes your thoughts is what you will eventually get in life. "So, if you think of all the things you don’t want in your life, you’ll only...
Ladies, I recently read Amy Schumer’s hilarious memoir, The Girl With the Lower Back Tattoo, which made me realize that when it comes to bad relationships we can’t just blame our childhoods. There are also … Hidden Cultural Beliefs that mess up our ability to find Real Love. Find...
You Might Be Blocking Happiness and Not Even Know It! If you were raised in an unpredictable, volatile or drug-and-alcohol addicted home, you may have developed a Fear of Happiness. In my family of origin, I learned that happiness, fun and gaiety could be swiftly followed by...
"I know I need to end this relationship, but I texted him three times yesterday. Why did I do that? What's wrong with me?" -- says someone addicted to Love This is a common refrain from many of my private clients. These are loving, considerate, intelligent...
Forgiving Others Ain't Easy, But Here Is What You Need to Do First! Today I'm writing about forgiveness as the path to finding peace. But before I jump in, I want to make sure you know: Forgiveness doesn't mean allowing ourselves to be abused. More on that later....
Breathing Permanently Changed the Way I Pray Who would have thought a deep breath in the belly, followed by a deep breath in the chest, followed by a warrior-like exhalation from the mouth would introduce me to God? As a coach and 12-step practitioner I’m always on...