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How to End an Unhappy Relationship

08 Nov How to End an Unhappy Relationship in 4 Action Steps

Posted at 17:22h in Dating & Recovery Articles, Relationship & Recovery Tools by Shannon 0 Comments

Why Does He Treat Me Like Shit When He Says He Loves Me? How to Make It Stop! Hey There -- first of all, I'm sorry he's treating you like shit. (If you're a man getting run over by a capricious, chaotic, inconsistent woman, just replace...

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16 Sep TWO THINGS to Avoid When Dating. They Might Surprise You!

Posted at 16:37h in Codependent Character Traits, Dating & Recovery Articles by Shannon 0 Comments

Hello Love Ninja -- I'm about to deliver the best dating advice for people who feel clueless and seem to crash and brun. Searing Epiphany #1: Sharing Intimate Details Isn't Intimacy What's the most intimate thing you've revealed to a seat mate on a long airplane flight?...

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signs of being a love addict

02 Jun Are You a Love Addict? How to Use Boredom as a Means of Withdrawal

Posted at 17:30h in Dating & Recovery Articles, Sex & Love Addiction by Shannon 0 Comments

Admit it. Bad Boys & Girls Are Exciting. And They're Ruining Our Lives! (The Life of a Love Addict) I used to get miffed when "nice guys" who wanted to date me bitterly cried, "All women just want to date Bad Boys!" They may've been right. At...

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unhappy relationship

16 Apr Is My Boyfriend Hitting on a Stranger Right in Front of Me?

Posted at 22:21h in Asshat Red Flags, Dating & Recovery Articles, Sex & Love Addiction by Shannon 1 Comment

Don't Romanticize an Unhappy Relationship! Remember that night when you were out to dinner with your boyfriend and another couple and as you were leaving, your boyfriend stopped to speak to a GORGEOUS WOMAN at the bar and you thought: "He must know her from somewhere because...

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why the law of attraction can be dangerous

07 Feb 4 Reasons The Law of Attraction Can Be Dangerous!

Posted at 00:46h in Dating & Recovery Articles by Shannon 2 Comments

What is The Law of Attraction? Thought leader and cherubic badass Mark Manson defines it thusly: “Essentially, The Law of Attraction states that whatever consumes your thoughts is what you will eventually get in life. "So, if you think of all the things you don’t want in your life, you’ll only...

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03 Jan Happiness Is a Choice. Don’t Let “Fear of Happiness” Control You

Posted at 00:11h in Dating & Recovery Articles, Sex & Love Addiction by Shannon 0 Comments

You Might Be Blocking Happiness and Not Even Know It! If you were raised in an unpredictable, volatile or drug-and-alcohol addicted home, you may have developed a Fear of Happiness. In my family of origin, I learned that happiness, fun and gaiety could be swiftly followed by...

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addicted to love

05 Oct Addicted to Love? (The Bad Kind) 7 Triggers & the Antidotes!

Posted at 19:05h in Codependent Character Traits, Dating & Recovery Articles, Relationship & Recovery Tools, Sex & Love Addiction by Shannon 1 Comment

"I know I need to end this relationship, but I texted him three times yesterday. Why did I do that? What's wrong with me?" -- says someone addicted to Love This is a common refrain from many of my private clients. These are loving, considerate, intelligent...

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12 Sep 7 Life-Altering Tools for Forgiving Others and Finding Peace

Posted at 19:06h in Dating & Recovery Articles, Relationship & Recovery Tools by Shannon 0 Comments

Forgiving Others Ain't Easy, But Here Is What You Need to Do First! Today I'm writing about forgiveness as the path to finding peace. But before I jump in, I want to make sure you know: Forgiveness doesn't mean allowing ourselves to be abused. More on that later....

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way to pray

21 Aug The Most Powerful Way to Pray! Hint: I Didn’t Learn It in Church

Posted at 17:55h in Dating & Recovery Articles, Higher Power by Shannon 0 Comments

Breathing Permanently Changed the Way I Pray Who would have thought a deep breath in the belly, followed by a deep breath in the chest, followed by a warrior-like exhalation from the mouth would introduce me to God? As a coach and 12-step practitioner I’m always on...

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25 May The Surprising Tool I Used for Dealing with a Mean Boss

Posted at 23:20h in Dating & Recovery Articles, Dealing With Narcissists, Higher Power by Shannon 0 Comments

This Tool for Dealing with a Mean Boss Can Also Be Used in Love Relationships! If you love, hate, are in lust with or employed by a toxic person aka narcissist, emotional abuser or Asshat, you probably know you are right about them. They have a serious problem and you...

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