Don't Romanticize an Unhappy Relationship! Remember that night when you were out to dinner with your boyfriend and another couple and as you were leaving, your boyfriend stopped to speak to a GORGEOUS WOMAN at the bar and you thought: "He must know her from somewhere because...
9. Mr. We're-Just-Friends: This is the guy who has a lot of girl "friends." He says you shouldn't be threatened by him having friends of the opposite sex. If you have a problem with it, it's your own insecurity and neuroses, it's not the fact...
Hello Recovery Road Warriors -- I just spent the last week driving all over the world to promote my new book, She Dated the Asshats, But Married the Good Guy: How to Go From Toxic Love to Real Love in 12 Exercises. In this particular clip...
Regarding Rule #1 to Avoid Becoming a Male Asshat I believe it was Rod Tidwell who said it best during a post-game bro-chat with Jerry Maguire. "A real man does not shoplift the 'pooty' from a single mom." To which Jerry hemmed and hawed like a burgeoning Asshat, "I...
He (or she) is cheating on you. This one isn’t really a red flag. It’s more like an anvil that’s been dropped on your head. He secretly cheats on you. He overtly cheats on you. He cheats on you in a box, with a fox, wearing socks. Then,...
He tells you you're paranoid when you see signs that he's cheating. In my final toxic relationship with a man I call Mr. Cruelly Handsome it took dating two years before he finally gave me a key to his apartment. When that day arrived I was thrilled....
(At the time this photograph was taken, my boyfriend/toxic lover kept telling me that I had unattractive cellulite on my legs. I stopped wearing skirts and shorts and became incredibly self-conscious about my body. I took these photos to take my body back. And now,...
Hello Relationship Warrior and welcome to week 7 of The Asshat Recovery Program online. If this is your first visit and you want to start from the beginning CLICK HERE. This week I reveal Red Flag #6 that you might be dating an Asshat and need to...
If your (wo)man does attend an event with family and friends, he makes sure you pay by acting like a grumpy mute the whole time. He won't talk. Or smile. Or engage in any conversations. (This goes for female Asshats too, but I use the male...
Hello Relationship Warrior, welcome to week 5 of The Asshat Recovery Program online. If this is your first visit and you want to start from the beginning CLICK HERE. This week I reveal the 4th Red Flag that you might be dating an Asshat and need...