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unhappy relationship

16 Apr Is My Boyfriend Hitting on a Stranger Right in Front of Me?

Posted at 22:21h in Asshat Red Flags, Dating & Recovery Articles, Sex & Love Addiction by Shannon 1 Comment

Don't Romanticize an Unhappy Relationship! Remember that night when you were out to dinner with your boyfriend and another couple and as you were leaving, your boyfriend stopped to speak to a GORGEOUS WOMAN at the bar and you thought: "He must know her from somewhere because...

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16 Mar 10 Down-and-Dirty Men to Spring Clean from Your Life!

Posted at 00:00h in Asshat Red Flags, Dating & Recovery Articles by Shannon 0 Comments

9. Mr. We're-Just-Friends: This is the guy who has a lot of girl "friends." He says you shouldn't be threatened by him having friends of the opposite sex. If you have a problem with it, it's your own insecurity and neuroses, it's not the fact...

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She Dated the Asshats

17 Feb She Dated the Asshats Interview on TV for the First Time

Posted at 01:54h in Asshat Red Flags, Dating & Recovery Articles by Shannon 0 Comments

Hello Recovery Road Warriors -- I just spent the last week driving all over the world to promote my new book, She Dated the Asshats, But Married the Good Guy: How to Go From Toxic Love to Real Love in 12 Exercises. In this particular clip...

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15 Jan An Open Letter to Men Who Don’t Want Kids: Don’t Age The Egg, Gentlemen

Posted at 18:44h in Asshat Red Flags, Dating & Recovery Articles by Shannon 0 Comments

I believe it was Rod Tidwell who said it best during a post-game bro-chat with Jerry Maguire. "A real man does not shoplift the 'pooty' from a single mom." To which Jerry hemmed and hawed like a burgeoning Asshat, "I didn't 'shoplift the pooty.' We were thrown...

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cheating

28 Sep Week 10: ARP (The 9th Red Flag – Cheating #2)

Posted at 18:54h in Asshat Red Flags, Dating & Recovery Articles by Shannon 2 Comments

He (or she) is cheating on you. This one isn’t really a red flag. It’s more like an anvil that’s been dropped on your head.  He secretly cheats on you. He overtly cheats on you. He cheats on you in a box, with a...

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22 Sep Week 9: ARP (The 8th Red Flag – Cheating #1)

Posted at 20:57h in Asshat Red Flags, Dating & Recovery Articles by Shannon 0 Comments

He tells you you're paranoid when you see signs that he's cheating. In my final toxic relationship with a man I call Mr. Cruelly Handsome, it took dating two years before he finally gave me a key to his apartment. When that day arrived, I was thrilled....

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abusive relationship

16 Sep Week 8: ARP (The 7th Red Flag of an Abusive Relationship – Criticism)

Posted at 08:00h in Asshat Red Flags, Dating & Recovery Articles by Shannon 0 Comments

At the time this photograph was taken -- -- my boyfriend/toxic lover kept telling me I had unattractive cellulite on my legs. I stopped wearing skirts and shorts and became incredibly self-conscious about my body. I took these photos to take my body back. And now,...

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toxic relationship red flags

24 Aug Week 7: ARP (6th Red Flag – Your Loved Ones Hate Him)

Posted at 17:45h in Asshat Red Flags, Dating & Recovery Articles by Shannon 0 Comments

Hello Relationship Warrior and welcome to week 7 of The Asshat Recovery Program online. If this is your first visit and you want to start from the beginning CLICK HERE. This week I reveal Red Flag #6 that you might be dating an Asshat and need to...

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18 Aug Week 6: ARP (5th Red Flag – Anti-Social)

Posted at 17:04h in Asshat Red Flags, Dating & Recovery Articles by Shannon 0 Comments

If your (wo)man does attend an event with family and friends, he makes sure you pay by acting like a grumpy mute the whole time. He won't talk. Or smile. Or engage in any conversations. (This goes for female Asshats too, but I...

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10 Aug Week 5: ARP (4th Red Flag – Avoids Making Plans)

Posted at 18:12h in Asshat Red Flags, Dating & Recovery Articles by Shannon 0 Comments

Hello Relationship Warrior, welcome to week 5 of The Asshat Recovery Program. If this is your first visit and you want to start from the beginning CLICK HERE. This week, I reveal the 4th Red Flag you might be dating an Asshat and need to run...

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